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28 March 2012 @ 10:50 pm

在“面簿”浏览时,看见了这个文章,不禁地上“谷歌”搜了搜,便发现了原文,如下。 摸一摸良心,我也说了伤父母的话。以下是网友在帖子中列出不要对父母说的9句话:

1.好了好了,我知道,真啰嗦;

2.有事吗,没事我挂了;(父母打电话,也许只想说说话,我们能否理解他们的用意,不要匆忙挂了电话?)

3.说了你也不懂,别问了;

4.跟你说多少次不要你做,做又做不好;(一些父母已经力不能及的事,我们因为关心而制止,但这样让他们觉得自己很无用。)

5.你们那一套早就过时;(父母的建议,也许不能起到作用,可我们是否能换一种回应的方式?)

6.叫你别收拾我房间,你看东西找都找不到了;(自己的房间还是自己收拾好,就算自己不收拾,也不要拂了父母的好意。)

7.我要吃什么我知道,别给我夹;(盼着我们回家的父母,总想把所有关心融在特意做的菜里,我们默默领情就好。)

8.说了别吃这些剩菜了,怎么老不听;(父母一辈子的节约习惯,很难改,让他们每次尽量少做点菜就好。)

9.我自己有分寸,别说了,烦不烦。

发帖者说,这些话,也许说者无心,却可能让听者伤心。请体谅我们的父母,作为子女,我们都不要再说这样的话了。

 
 
 
22 January 2012 @ 08:33 pm
 
 

One after another, my feet slipped an inch or two as I focused every bit of my strength onto my legs to ascend the 45-degree steep slope. It has been three and a half hours, and I was at the last burst to the summit. As I continued to make my way up the last 300-metre push, the loose gravels that formed the 'pathway' never seem to stay in place, crumbling as I stumbled my way up, slipping back a step after making four steps forward. By then, I fully understood what my other friends meant by "4 steps up, 1 step down". Just 150 metres before the summit, I looked behind me, realizing that everyone who planned to summit that day has already passed me. I said out loud to myself, "Why the hell did I get myself into this shit"……

It all started ... )
 
 
01 January 2012 @ 10:55 am


2011 in Retrospect.
 
 
 
13 November 2011 @ 10:57 pm
Photo Source: http://video.libertytimes.com.tw/article.php?id=8608
 
 
13 November 2011 @ 10:14 pm
Photo Source: http://www.vivadaily.com/

《那些年
作曲:木村充利       填詞:九把刀

又回到最初的起點
記憶中妳青澀的臉
我們終於來到了這一天
桌墊下的老照片
無數回憶連結
今天男孩要赴女孩最後的約

又回到最初的起點
呆呆地站在鏡子前
笨拙繫上紅色領帶的結
將頭髮梳成大人模樣
穿上一身帥氣西裝
等會兒見妳一定比想像美

好想再回到那些年的時光
回到教室座位前後  故意討妳溫柔的罵
黑板上排列組合  妳捨得解開嗎
誰與誰坐他又愛著她

那些年錯過的大雨
那些年錯過的愛情
好想擁抱妳 擁抱錯過的勇氣
曾經想征服全世界
到最後回首才發現
這世界滴滴點點全部都是妳

那些年錯過的大雨
那些年錯過的愛情
好想告訴妳 告訴妳我沒有忘記
那天晚上滿天星星
平行時空下的約定
再一次相遇我會緊緊抱著妳
緊緊抱著妳
 
 
10 November 2011 @ 10:57 pm


No matter how bad life has been and will be, there is a huge chunk of it that is not within your control.

Why not just stop, catch your breath and move on from where you left off?

This time, making sure that you focus 100% on those that are controllable and enjoy what you do.
 
 
26 October 2011 @ 10:49 pm


望梅止渴: 比喻用空想安慰自己或他人

Quenching Thirst by Watching Plums: comfort oneself by idle dreams